Combine Marriage

The trend of mass marriages is a positive process, an illusion of the poor

Mass Marriage Introduction

The sacred duty of marrying a daughter has also become a burden on parents. The boys are waiting for the dowry, which is why the parents are worried about the dowry from the time the daughter is born.

Islam started the reform of human society with respect for women and when Islam spoke of the sanctity of women, it also provided the means of protecting its outward and inward so that it could not in any way fall below the position of human dignity. Islam has commanded the fulfillment of the sacred duty of marriage for the sake of the human race in order to maintain the social sanctity of a woman.

Thinkings

Sons are called blessings and daughters are called blessings of Allah, but in this age of high prices where it has become more difficult for the poor to earn a living, these daughters are considered to be a nuisance and it is prayed that Allah grants them old-age support but mercy instead of support. If it is awarded, then the difficulties for the poor family begin.

Raising a daughter first, then studying and then marrying her. These three stages of hard work are very difficult tests for professionals and in a poor family that has received a lot of "blessings" from Allah, so much so that the "blessings" are so dear to the house. That is the problem we face.

Our Society

The irony of our society is that even the sacred duty of marrying a daughter has become a burden on parents. The boys are waiting for the dowry which is why the parents are worried about the dowry of the daughter from the time of her birth. The father and the brother can hardly make the dowry of a daughter after years of hard work. The whole life of the parents is devoted to the leave of the daughters but still, it is not possible for all the parents to do so.

Parents 

Parents and siblings, despite their best efforts, cannot prepare the dowry according to the needs of the boys. It has also been observed that parents or siblings commit suicide out of frustration and sometimes the girl commits suicide considering herself a burden on the family and society has become a figure of indifference and is falling prey to this evil. For the downtrodden, local NGOs and welfare societies worked together to wipe away the tears of such poor families and to provide shelter for their daughters.

NGO's

The last few years have seen a sharp rise in the trend towards mass marriages, which has resulted in many girls in poor families waiting for marriage to get married before the silver lining falls on their heads. In Rahim Yar Khan, a well-known businessman of the city, MPA Chaudhry Muhammad Shafiq, who has made similar efforts at the local level, has also started this series of mass marriages.

Welfare Society

Chenab Welfare Society has been playing a leading role in mass marriages of girls and boys from poor families since 2004. A mass wedding of 70 couples was organized by the Chenab Welfare Society at Chowk Bahadurpur in which a large number of district administration, police administration, businessmen, and citizens participated. This series of mass weddings used to be seen in a few cities but now such ceremonies are being held in many cities across Pakistan.

Society Responsibility

Similarly, the same welfare is distributing Rs. 48 lakh per month to 8800 widows and 1720 orphans across the district which is not advertised because widows and orphans

Don't feel deprived.

In mass marriages, Chenab Welfare Society has started a series of mass marriages for poor and needy girls whose parents cannot afford a dowry for their leave from local resources, in which the bride is provided a full dowry for the needs of the house, the bride and The groom provide food to 50, 50 guests from both sides.

Arrangments for Brides

The warm welcome and warm welcome of the guests on both sides do not allow them to feel that they are at the mercy of anyone else or that their wedding arrangements have been made elsewhere. They feel as if they are getting married. All arrangements are theirs and the wedding is taking place in their neighborhood. Barats are welcomed to the beat of drums and regular Jhumar or dances are performed. Special care is taken to ensure that at no level does the bride or groom or any of their relatives feel deprived and participate in the program with dignity. ۔

Bride Occasion

On this occasion, the bride and groom will be offered bridal gifts such as prayer mat, Quran, sewing machine, tea set, kettle set, dinner set, double bed, bedsheet, comforters, gas stove, suitcase, briefcase, groom, bridal suite, Large iron belt, chairs and table, washing machine, pedestal fan, etc. are provided and its value ranges from Rs. 2 to Rs. 2 lakhs.